8 December 2025
When you think of a gifted child, what comes to mind? Maybe someone effortlessly acing tests, devouring books faster than the average adult, or creating science fair projects that could rival a college thesis. Sounds like a dream, right? But what if that same student also struggles to read fluently, focus in class, or complete homework on time? It sounds contradictory—but it’s the reality for many twice-exceptional students.
“Twice-exceptional” (also known as 2e) refers to students who are both intellectually gifted and have learning disabilities. Yep, both. And that’s where things get tricky.
In this article, we’re pulling back the curtain on this unique group of learners. We’ll unpack what it means to be twice-exceptional, dive into the challenges they face, and talk strategies to support them—whether you’re a parent, teacher, or just someone who wants to understand these bright yet often misunderstood minds.
- Giftedness + ADHD
- Giftedness + Dyslexia
- Giftedness + Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD)
- Giftedness + Processing Disorders
- Giftedness + Anxiety or Depression
In simple terms? These students can be brilliant in one area and really struggle in another. Imagine a kid who can solve complex math equations in their head but can't write a coherent paragraph. Or a student who reads at a college level yet has a miserable time keeping their desk organized.
It’s a paradox that often leaves parents and teachers scratching their heads. After all, how can a child be so smart and struggle so much at the same time?
But here's the problem: they’re working three times as hard as their peers just to keep up. Over time, this leads to frustration, anxiety, and burnout.
In both cases, the full picture gets blurred.
They start to internalize the idea that something is “wrong” with them. Cue the self-esteem issues.
Think of it like being left-handed in a world made for righties—but also having perfect pitch. You don’t quite belong anywhere.
And unfortunately, sometimes they’re not diagnosed with anything at all.
As a result, assessments often miss the nuanced profile of a 2e learner.
Ask questions like:
- What motivates them?
- Where do they feel most confident?
- What triggers frustration?
Once you see the whole child, you’re in a better position to support them.
Some strategies to consider:
- Allow for extensions or flexible deadlines
- Use assistive technology (text-to-speech, audiobooks, etc.)
- Offer enrichment and remediation at the same time
- Encourage alternative ways to demonstrate understanding (like oral presentations instead of written essays)
The goal? Support their weaknesses without watering down their strengths.
Ideas to try:
- Encourage mindfulness or relaxation activities
- Normalize mistakes as part of the learning process
- Celebrate efforts, not just outcomes
- Connect them with mentors or role models who are also 2e
Helping them build emotional resilience is just as important as teaching them math or grammar.
Professional development workshops, parent support groups, and readily available resources can change the game. When adults understand what twice-exceptionality means, they can create environments that are truly inclusive—and beneficial for everyone.
Even with their challenges, 2e students often bring incredible creativity, problem-solving abilities, empathy, and out-of-the-box thinking to the table. They might struggle with spelling but build entire fantasy worlds in their heads. They may have trouble focusing—yet hyperfocus on a topic they love with laser precision.
Their minds may zigzag instead of going in a straight line, but sometimes that zigzag leads to brilliance.
- High vocabulary but poor writing skills
- Performs well on tests in one subject, but poorly in another
- Displays creativity or deep thinking but struggles with basic tasks
- Has inconsistent academic performance
- Shows signs of anxiety, perfectionism, or low self-esteem despite high potential
- Seems “bored” or disengaged in school
- Exhibits strong verbal skills but weak fine-motor skills
If some of these ring true, it might be time to consider a comprehensive evaluation with a psychologist who understands giftedness and learning differences.
If you’re a parent, teacher, counselor, or even a 2e person yourself, remember this: being twice-exceptional isn’t a curse. It’s a different kind of genius—a beautiful blend of brilliance and resilience.
So let’s stop seeing their differences as problems to fix, and start seeing them as strengths to support. Because every mind deserves to shine.
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Category:
Learning DisabilitiesAuthor:
Janet Conrad